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I took Manchild to the doctor last week for his 5-year checkup. The receptionist noticed my interest in the Rachael Ray show, which was on while I was filling out the paperwork.
“You’re a real stay-at-home-mom,” she said. “I could tell because you’re interested in the cooking show. You cook for your family.” She went on to tell me about another mom she knows like that, who lives in Park Slope. She cooks all their food and doesn’t hire anyone to help her around the house while she is home with the kids. The receptionist had noted how, unless Micah was home, I always came to the doctor by myself – no babysitter tagging along. This other lady said that if she’s going to be a stay-at-home-mom, she’s going to be a stay-at-home-mom. Meaning she’s not going to hire any help or order out for their all the time.
I was a little surprised. Isn’t that what a stay-at-home-mom does? She may not earn any money, but she makes up for it by not hiring help, by preparing her family’s food, by learning how to make the most of what they have, by being the person who is there to answer the kids’ questions and take them to the park.
What does being a stay-at-home-mom mean to you?